By
Char Berry
Growing up, every girl dreams of the fairytale life... the
husband, the house, the dog, the kids, the car and the career. We've
gotten older, life happened and most of our fairytale hasn't come true
yet. We've started dating, looking for Mr. Right and we ended up with a
lot of Mr. Wrongs. J Some or most of our girlfriends have already walked
down the aisle and we are still on the hunt for the right one. So to
ease your frustration here's five simple and easy ways you can start
attracting your Mr. Right into your life right now.
With all my love,
Char
- You have to know what you want. This is the first step. In order to attract what you want you have to know what it is you are trying to attract. What qualities does your Mr. Right have? Is he funny, smart, charismatic, outgoing, and spontaneous?
- You have to be what you are looking for. Do you already have the qualities of your Mr. Right? If your Mr. Right is funny, smart, charismatic, outgoing, and spontaneous, are you the same? In order for you to attract your Mr. Right, you have to already portray the qualities that you are seeking in him. When you do, he will come along a lot faster.
- You have to feel the way your Mr. Right will make you feel. What is it that your Mr. Right will make you feel? Will he make you feel happy, safe, secure, loved, wanted, or complete? If he will make you feel any of these emotions and so forth, you have to feel that way now. When you do, then you will be able to attract your Mr. Right.
- You have to let go of know how you are going to get him. Knowing the how isn't really important. Just know and trust that he will come at the right time. When I least expected it, my hubby came into my life when I wasn't even looking for a man. LOL! Before he came into my life, I was all hell bent on finding me a man because I was tired of being lonely. I wanted companionship and I wanted to be courted... I found love (or what I thought it was at the time) in a lot of Mr. Wrongs before I ended up with my Mr. Right.
- You have to take action. Taking action doesn't mean that you are forcefully going out every night to find your Mr. Right. Taking action does mean that you are putting yourself out there (not putting out... that's a different thing). Go out on a night of the town with your girlfriends and have fun or if you decide to sign up for an online dating site such as Match.com, eHarmony.com, or any other professional dating site. If you want, you can hire a matchmaker or decide to go speed dating. Just make sure whatever you choose to do, make sure you have fun. When you aren't focused (well, we want you to stay focused on what you want, just not obsessed) day and night on what you are trying to attract, it comes to you much faster.
With all my love,
Char
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