Dating Tips For Introverted Men - Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?
A common question that is always asked, especially by nice guys
are why do they always finish last in the dating game? In fact, why do
nice guys always finish last in all other aspects of life be it in
relationship, work or play? What exactly is it that the successful guy
has that the "average" guy doesn't? This is a question that had always
puzzled me in the past until I found out the answer and changed my life
completely. Read on to find out the answer that could be a potential
life changer.
Do you ever find yourself feeling nervous and uncertain whenever you are around women and you start using stupid pickup lines that are sure to sabotage your chances and ensure your failure in dating? Do you ever find yourself hesitant and apprehensive to approach a woman because you are afraid you cannot handle the situation or you are scared of being rejected? Do you feel envious of other guys who always managed to get hot dates and you thought it is because they have the money, nice car, big house that you don't have or they are smarter and better-looking than you?
It is common for a guy to harbour those thoughts at some point of their life when they are not having the success that they dream about. However, those are limiting thoughts and the reason why they can't get the dates they want is definitely not because they don't have the money or the car or the looks. It is the self-belief and confidence that manifest as the outward personality traits that a successful guy has that give him the success he enjoys.
Nice guys like to keep things mellow and cool where the situation is such that everyone can try to get along with each other. They feel that conflict makes things worse and more difficult for everyone especially themselves since they cannot manage conflicts. Being the diplomat keeps things running smooth and cool. However, there is no fun being with a diplomat. It will only sabotage themselves by trying to avoid conflict instead of managing conflict. Nice guys try to be nice by sacrificing their own desires and needs to accommodate and give way to women. But what they are really showing to women is that they don't have the natural masculinity that a real man should possess.
Women need to see guys who display great strength of character and capable of protecting them and not giving up their rights to women. Nice guys need to bring out their innate masculinity and dominance but at the same time being "nice" to women. They have to learn how to be assertive to lead and protect women. Don't be mistaken that women like or want jerks as partner. They only desire the "Alpha male" qualities the "jerk" possesses and that the nice guy, for some reason, is unable to display.
Do you ever find yourself feeling nervous and uncertain whenever you are around women and you start using stupid pickup lines that are sure to sabotage your chances and ensure your failure in dating? Do you ever find yourself hesitant and apprehensive to approach a woman because you are afraid you cannot handle the situation or you are scared of being rejected? Do you feel envious of other guys who always managed to get hot dates and you thought it is because they have the money, nice car, big house that you don't have or they are smarter and better-looking than you?
It is common for a guy to harbour those thoughts at some point of their life when they are not having the success that they dream about. However, those are limiting thoughts and the reason why they can't get the dates they want is definitely not because they don't have the money or the car or the looks. It is the self-belief and confidence that manifest as the outward personality traits that a successful guy has that give him the success he enjoys.
Nice guys like to keep things mellow and cool where the situation is such that everyone can try to get along with each other. They feel that conflict makes things worse and more difficult for everyone especially themselves since they cannot manage conflicts. Being the diplomat keeps things running smooth and cool. However, there is no fun being with a diplomat. It will only sabotage themselves by trying to avoid conflict instead of managing conflict. Nice guys try to be nice by sacrificing their own desires and needs to accommodate and give way to women. But what they are really showing to women is that they don't have the natural masculinity that a real man should possess.
Women need to see guys who display great strength of character and capable of protecting them and not giving up their rights to women. Nice guys need to bring out their innate masculinity and dominance but at the same time being "nice" to women. They have to learn how to be assertive to lead and protect women. Don't be mistaken that women like or want jerks as partner. They only desire the "Alpha male" qualities the "jerk" possesses and that the nice guy, for some reason, is unable to display.
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