MUST READ LADIES: 5 Major Factors Working Against Responsible Ladies Getting Husbands

Oladele Hakeem 50 minutes ago 1216

Responsible ladies who are still single should know the multifarious reasons for this. There are so many factors that work against their efforts in getting men of their choice. Some good women have tried and are still trying different methods of removing things that possibly stand as obstacles to them.

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Women with good qualities men desire may wonder why they are becoming less appealing to men these days. They may marvel why it seems men hardly court them for relationship which could lead to marriage. Their thoughts could be on those things that hinder them from getting married. They may ruminate on their singlehood status day and night and still find no tangible solutions to their challenges. Probably, some of them may share parts of the blame game. However, majority of them are not to blame.
Globally, the approach to doing so many things is currently changing. Surprisingly, there are so many intertwined factors that some men look for before choosing their life partners. While some men are interested in the family background and a woman’s manner of interaction, other men may be interested in her level of schooling and how well exposed she is.
The unfortunate things sometimes are that some responsible ladies are at the receiving end. Potential husbands, who ought to woo them, are now skeptical due to some perceived notions.
1. Internet Fraudsters
The advent of social media has filled so many gaps in men-women relationship. These media have help to surmount some challenges of long distance relationship. If a man meets a woman through any of these media like Facebook, We chat, LinkedIn, Twitter, 2go and others, he may develop interest. However, the proliferation of social media has also led to the increase in the numbers of internet scammers. These fraudsters pose as beautiful and responsible ladies. They use all sorts of tricks to hoodwink some unsuspecting men who might have thought they have met their future partner. If they are defrauded at the end of the day, this therefore blocks good ladies who believe they can meet a man through these media.
The high rate of these scammers is on the rise. Thus, opportunities are being denied to women without bad intention on social media.
2. Difficulty in differentiating categories of men
A woman who had a bad experience with a man might be scared of other men. Some even do not have any bad experience but do not know ways of knowing the good, bad and ugly among men.
3. Poor positioning
This factor is mainly the fault of responsible ladies. They are not at the right place at the right time. Men find it hard in knowing if they are married or still single. These women present themselves as if they do not need a man in their life. They mingle with people who have no business yet in marriage. If a man knows this is the case, he could think the lady is not interested in marriage.
4. Socioeconomic status
Women who have good intention towards men and marriage are facing so many difficulties because of this factor. The status of a woman says so much about her. The working class ladies, the well-educated women, the popular actresses and sports figures fall in this category.
Men are funny creatures. They think about the future, whereas women think very fast. Women dwell more on the present. No man wants a woman who has all the educational qualifications, while he is nowhere her. Another challenge a high level of socioeconomic status brings to a good number of women is pride and the spirit of wanting to dominate men. Even if the woman says she would be submissive to him after marriage, the man would still harbour some modicum of fear. The reason is that the higher the socioeconomic statuses of women, the more men are frightened to have them as wives.
5. Some men’s pre-made mentality
It is wrong to draw a conclusion on a person someone has not yet met. This does not concern some men. They draw conclusion on some sets of women. This factor is more common when it has to do with tribes, ethnicity, race or colour.
Some men do label women that come from some tribes in Nigeria as non responsible ladies. They believe no good ladies will come from some ethnic groups. Even if a woman from such tribes are good, they are not convinced at all. They have a general biased mindset. For instance, among the Yorubas. Some men tag Lagos women as party freaks. They believe women from this state are poor wife materials.
Also, some men will not go near Ibadan or Egba women. They do say they are promiscuous in nature and do not stay with a single husband. They believe divorce is nothing new to them. They label them with unfavourable names. This negative thinking about women from particular regions abounds all over the world.